Jewelry For Every Stage Of The Relationship—Including The Proposal

Depending on what stage your relationship is in, or what type of relationship you have with someone, you should buy jewelry as a christmas gift accordingly. When people shop for christmas gift bargains in pawn shops around Temecula they often ask what sort of jewelry they should buy for their girlfriend or wife. Because this answer varies greatly depending on what stage of the relationship you’re in, we thought we would provide the long answer in a blog post.

For The Early Stages

When you’re still in the early stages of your relationship a piece of jewelry can have the most impact as a Christmas gift. Tread lightly here if you don’t want to say too much, but gifting something simple can be deeply meaningful at the same time. For the early stages of a relationship we recommend a simple pair of stud earrings.

Buying jewelry for your significant other is somewhat of a milestone, so you should put a careful amount of consideration into what you want out of the relationship before you start. This blog post talks about the different milestones in your relationship and when giving jewelry is the right move.

For The Early Commitment Stages

If you’ve committed to a relationship and you hope to make it long term, jewelry can be a meaningful gift to mark the first stages of the relationship while it’s still in its honeymoon phase. By this time you should put some more thought into figuring out what she would like the most, but also keep it simple with something like a pendant necklace or a pair of earrings with her favorite gemstone.

The Big Question

Shopping for the big ring—the engagement ring—can be stressful and hard if you don’t know where to begin. Before you think about buying a ring, take some time to get to know what her tastes are so that you can find the perfect one. Many couples are opting not to get traditional engagement rings more and more these days, and considering something with her favorite gemstone or metal color may be more meaningful than going out and buying the first ring you can find that fits the description of an engagement ring.

Finding the perfect ring doesn’t have to be complicated as long as you know what you’re looking for. Many people are opting to buy their engagement ring from pawn shops because they’re able to find products that have more diversity than most regular jewelry stores. Anything from the latest trends to vintage rings are often available, and since pawn shops are picky about what they take in that means that the selection you’re often left with is some of the better products.

You Live Together But Don’t Want To Get Engaged Yet

For relationships that are a little bit further along a piece of jewelry as a Christmas gift can be a great way to spark meaning and joy into your relationship and bring it back to its honeymoon phase. By this time you should absolutely put more thought into what she may like the most in order to avoid getting something that says you didn’t want to put effort into picking it out.

This piece of jewelry says a lot, as its representative of how you want to build a life with your significant other. Earrings in her favorite metal color or a bracelet that matches her personal style says that you care a lot about her and want to put effort into getting her the perfect piece of jewelry as you take things to the next level.


This is where you should put the most thought and, let’s be real, money, into your Christmas gifts for your significant other. Whether you’re in the newlywed phase or you’ve been married for years, a piece of jewelry in this stage should be reflective of the commitment you’re putting into the relationship.

We recommend getting a ring in the style and color that she likes the most, or bracelet with an important date in your relationship engraved somewhere on the piece. This blog post talks about the secrets of picking out jewelry that she’ll love for a long time.

Finding the Perfect Piece of Jewelry

Regardless of what stage your relationship is in, finding the perfect piece of jewelry can be stressful and expensive. At Gems N’ Loans we believe that jewelry should be more affordable and accessible to everyone—in addition to being diverse so that you can find the perfect piece for your significant other. With 5 locations throughout Southern California including Temecula, Gems N’ Loans can help you find the perfect piece of jewelry at an affordable price.